Think me vain or victim of early mid-life crisis, but I don’t want motherhood to turn me from a youthful, style-conscious woman into a frumpy mess, with no time to take care of myself. That’s how I’ve been feeling these past 34 weeks of pregnancy… Lack of motivation, energy and reason to make myself presentable. Looking at pictures of myself from just 2 years ago, one has to wonder, “Who the heck is that??”
I’m thankful to have had a safe and healthy pregnancy thus far (and hope it continues to birth), but my self esteem has taken a beating. Gaining 40lbs and being super uber swollen all the time is NOT a fab feeling. This has been somewhat of a “scared straight” experience to motivate me to work my ass off after Baby Chan arrives to look and feel great again. It’ll be a challenge, since availability of time and energy will be dictated by his needs, but one I’m ready to take on.
STEP 1: Little things can be done right now towards looking like a stylish mom. A cool diaper bag is a necessity. After all, that will be my primary accessory for the next few years. It doesn’t, however, have to mean paying a ridiculous amount of money for one. Smart spending is always in style 🙂 So after drooling over the Petunia Pickle Bottom bag of the woman who sat next to me in the OB waiting room, I decided to find my cheaper alternative. And perhaps one that doesn’t scream diaper bag.
Etsy.com is my favorite site. It’s like Ebay for unique and stylish people 🙂 After browsing for almost 2 hours, I decided on this nautical, somewhat gender neutral piece, made in Paris by a fellow mom and bagmaker. It’s made of full lined french heavyweight 100% duck canvas (whatever that means) and can be used as a shoulder or messenger bag. Even after shipping from Europe, this beauty only cost $55! Woot woot! Can’t wait to get it…
Excited from my purchase, I decided to get crafty and make my own travel changing kit on the cheap, instead of paying more for a generic one from Babies R Us. Let me tell you, it was TEDIOUS!!! Especially since I didn’t have a tutorial or manual to go by and had to figure everything out myself. The good news is I finally learned how to thread the sewing machine on my own (since Kevin wasn’t around to help this time). It’s machine washable and will hopefully last awhile 🙂 This was my project for the week.
It features the green from my diaper bag, but also adds interesting designs and color elements. I especially love the wooden faux button 🙂 The changing pad is actually held closed with velcro. And when open, the bottom is a big pocket, to hold diapers and wipes. I spent $13 on all materials and have a yard of fabric left to do something else… decorative pillow perhaps??? HMMMM…